Our guide to BDSM and cock and ball torture letter by letter, from autoeroticism to zapper and everything in between.
A
Autoeroticism - also known as self stimulations, in the CBT world this would sum up self busting, the act of punishing your own cock and balls.
Abrasion - a former of torture, usually used on a slaves cock which involves rubbing a corse material against the skin, tin foil, the hooked side of velcro can be effective, or for the more extreme, sandpaper.
B
Blue balls - the dull painful ache that a slave experiences in his balls after tease and denial, the testicles are swollen and your slave is left desperate to orgasm.
Ball crusher - there are various types of ball crushers but they share a similar mechanic, usually a one or more screw is turned to slowly apply more and more pressure of the testicles, a simple vice could also be used.
Biting - an easy way to torture a sub's cock and balls is to use your teeth, it doesn't take much pressure to the shaft of the penis or the scrotum to have him squirming.
Barefoot - while some men like to be ballbusted with boots or shoes, for many it is the act of being kicked in the balls barefoot which is a turn on, perhaps it's finding out how much pain her delicate little feet can cause which is such a turn on.
Banding - a form of castration play where rubber bands are fastened around the scrotum at the base of the cock, effectively cutting off blood circulation to the testicles.
C
Chastity device - a common and ancient form of cock and ball torture. Chastity is heavily practiced in cuckold relationship. There are a range of cage and restraints designed to fit the male genitalia, once locked inside the device prevents or makes erection painful and restricts the ability to stimulate the penis.
Crush - crushing of the cock and balls is a favourite of many who are in to ballbusting, crushing can be done with a ball crusher or similar device or crushed under foot.
Cock ring - is a usually leather belt which is fastened around the base of the cock and balls, it's designed to enhance and maintain an erection but is great for CBT as it bunches up the balls in their sac and presents them for punishment.
Castration play - an extreme form of CBT, however castration or castration play is enjoyed by some in the BDSM community. Castration play often involves the threat of castration with blades or clamps, or banding with a device such as an elastrator which applies tight elastic bands to the testicles to cut the blood flow, eventually killing the testicles, hence the use of the word extreme.
Clothes pegs - a simple but effective form of cock and ball torture, its also cheap and easy making it great for beginners. All you need is some standard clothes pegs from around the home, they can then be applied to the penis and scrotum. Putting the pegs on may not be too painful but taking them off can be, the longer the pegs are left on the more painful the removal becomes.
D
Dominatrix - a professional domme who charges or takes tributes from submissives who want to serve her. Many dominatrix are interested in cock and ball torture and ballbusting.
E
Electro-torture - is a favourite for many in the BDSM world, the use of electric current to inflict pain on the cock and balls. Common tools include the violet wand or eStim which are designed for play or the TENS unit or similar electrical muscle stimulation device.
Elastrator - an evil tool used in castration play, it takes its origins from livestock castration but is sometimes used for kinky play, it is used to apply tight elastic bands to the scrotum, in livestock it is left until the testicles simply die and drop-off, few kinksters would take it that far.
Edging - the act of taking a slave to the edge of orgasm. This can be achieved by stroking or stimulating his cock until he seems close to orgasm and then stopping dead, only to resume a once he's calmed down. This often goes hand in hand with orgasm denial.
F
Flogger - a flat tools or small, multi-tailed whip like a cat o' nine tails, designed especially for flogging, similar to whipping or spanking, a flogger is usually used on a slaves ass but can also be used on the cock and balls.
Flicking - don't under estimate the power of a flick to the testicles, just a little flick to the balls can cause a lot of pain and relentless flicks again and again soon build up to an unbearable form of torture.
G
Genital bondage - bondage is a common practice in the BDSM world but within the confines of cock and ball torture is a popular activity. Tying and binding the cock and balls can be an intense experience for a slave and when tied tightly they become much more sensitive and vulnerable.
H
Hot wax - a simple game anyone can play, simply light a candle and drip hot wax over your slave's cock and balls. Remember to select a candle carefully and always test the temperature of the wax before dripping on to sensitive areas.
Humbler - a CBT favourite, a restraint that clamps the balls in the middle of a bar that passes behind the thighs, this puts the wearer in a very vulnerable position.
Heels - for those with a shoe or boot fetish, there's nothing better than the feeling of having your balls crushed beneath the heels of your dom.
I
Impact play - the umbrella term for ballbusting, which is a form of impact play. Impact play literally is inflicting pain on someone using the impact of a foot, first or whatever else you may like to use. Of course, our favourite form of impact play would be a nice swift kick to the balls.
Ice - ice cubes can be a very effective form of torture when rubbed over the cock and balls, you may also want to try dipping his teased and tortured cock in to some icy water to dampen his arousal once he's been denied.
J
JOI - jerk off instruction videos can be fun, if you find the right clip producer not only will you get told how to wank but also exactly what to do to your cock and balls, be that hit, slap, punch or punish how ever your video tormentor sees fit.
K
Kick - the ballbuster's favourite, the easiest way to inflict pain on a sub's balls is a good kick to the groin, whether your slave is stood back to the wall, on all fours or on his knees before you.
Knee - another ballbuster's favourite, a knee to the nuts is probably the best way to put a guy on the floor. The reason a knee can be so much more effective than a kick is that you can place your hands on his shoulders and really get your knee up and under his sac, crushing his balls against his body.
L
Leather - the material of choice in the construction of toys and bondage equipment such as cock rings and ball spliters used in CBT.
M
Mike's Spikes - also known as a Kalis teeth bracelet is an extremely cruel male chastity toy, it acts as a behaviour modifier, teaching the slave not to become aroused. The cuff is locked around the base of the cock, the inside is lined with spikes. The majority of the cock itself is left exposed to be teased, once it is in place it cant be removed as the spikes cling on to the lose skin of the penis and of course if the slave becomes aroused it is really going to hurt as the sharp teeth sink in to the skin.
N
Nailing - is a very extreme form of ball torture where the scrotum is nailed to piece of wood, usually the balls are pushed through a small hole in the wood, the sac is spread and nailed in to place - of course being careful to avoid the testicles.
Nettles - take CBT outdoors, stinging nettles are a powerful way to torture your slave's cock and balls. Simply whip his privates with the nettles and he'll be in agony with a throbbing sting that will last way beyond your session with him.
O
Orgasm denial - want to give your slave blue balls? Take him to edge of orgasm, make him think he's about to shoot his load and then stop and deny him the pleasure of orgasm.
P
Punch - ballbusting doesn't have to just be done with a foot or a knee, a fist is a great way to make your man weep. A harsh punch to the balls is a great way to bust a man's balls.
Parachute - a sex toy which clamps around the base of the scrotum, chains or clips hand down allowing you to attach weights which will then in turn pull and stretch on the balls.
Post orgasm torture - after orgasm a man normally wants to roll over and fall asleep, he may think play is over but actually it's the best time to torture him. After ejaculation the head of the penis becomes extremely sensitive and relentless rubbing and teasing immediately after orgasm becomes very intense and unbearable.
Q
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R
Ruined orgasm - once you've teased your slave and have him desperate to cum, you have a choice... you could either deny him or ruin his orgasm. A domme has no idea how frustrating it is to stroke a slaves cock but at the point of ejaculation stop and let the cum dribble out of his dick without any stimulation. The sensation is so frustrating that it cancels out any feelings of pleasure normally associated with orgasm.
S
Stretcher - are used to stretch the balls away from the body, pulling them down in to the bottom of the sack where they are vulnerable. Types of stretchers include parachute stretcher and cuffs which fasten around the base of the scrotum.
Stomp - those with a trampling fetish or boots fetish may like to have their balls stomped on by their domme, have them lie on the ground for you and slam the sole of your foot in to his groin.
Spreader bar - one of the best ways to have your slave at your mercy. A spreader bar fastens to each ankle and a static bar spreads the legs and holds them open, at this point his is vulnerable, you can kick and punch until your heart is content.
Squeeze - there's no feeling more powerful than literally having him by the balls, gently cup his balls, the symbol of his manhood, then squeeze with everything you've got and watch him squirm and beg.
Slap - a classic ballbusting move, try sitting on his chest so his restrained and slap those balls. The great thing about slapping is that you don't even have to do it hard to get a reaction, just try slapping over and over, many little slaps can become very painful and uncomfortable very quickly.
T
Trampling - a common fetish where a dom walks or tramples on the body of her sub, in a CBT context the trampling would focus on the cock and balls.
Tamakeri - is the Japanese name for ballbusting, so if you fancy searching one of the many porn tube sites for a cute Japanese girl taking out her anger on a pair of balls, then type 'tamakeri' in to the search box.
U
Urethral sounding - the insertion of an object in to the penis, the sound is usually inserted about halfway into the penis and can usually be easily retrieved, other devices such as catheters can be inserted deeper.
V
Violet wand - a electro-torture devices used to inflict pain by zapping the cock or balls with an electrical current.
W
Whip - a dominatrix's staple piece of a kit, a domme who is skilled with a whip will have no problem focussing her torment on her slave's cock and balls and a lash to the balls stings way more between the legs than it does across the back.
Wartenberg wheel - also known as a pin wheel was originally a medical device designed to test nerve sensitivity, in fetish it is used in sensation play and can be very effective especially when used on bound balls, it can also be connected to an electrical stimulation device.
Weights - can be attached to the balls either with clips of clamps or by using a parachute, the aim is to stretch the balls away from the body and test the sub's limits, how much weight can he take?
X
Xtreme - most guys can take a couple of kicks to the balls, whether they know it or not, but few men have the balls of steel require to take a session with some of the world's cruelest dommes. Probably the best known for their extreme and merciless approach to ballbusting are Lady Cheyenne and Mistress Elise.
Y
Yeowww - the sound a sub makes when his owner stomps on his ball in Doc Martins.
Z
Zapper - a home bug zapper is a great way to torture a slave. You can pick up a simple £10 bug zapper, it looks like a tennis racket and is traditionally used for swatting flies but that's not all you can swat with the electrified meshed racket.
