There's no denying that London is a kinky city and there are many women who are ready and willing to, kick, knee or punch your balls. London is a big city and meeting these girls can be tricky. So, here's our guide to ballbusting in London.
First off, you need to decide whether you are looking for something longterm like a dominant girlfriend who will punish your balls, a regular playmate or a one off encounter.
If you're looking for the latter, a one off ballbusting session then a pro-dominatrix might be for you. There are hundreds of pro domes all across the city. Of course, when we say professional we mean they'll dominate and bust you for money but it can be the best way to play, especially for a first timer.
Many of the pros are based in well kitted out, discreet dungeons, where, if nothing else, the mood is perfect to be dominated and if you're also interested in cock and ball torture your tormentor will have all the evil tools on hand she needs.
An hour with a pro dome starts for little over £100, they are generally caring and understanding and will take the time to find out your likes and dislikes before they punish you, have you serve her and push you to your limits.
The easiest way to find a pro dome is AdultWork, search the local escorts for those which offer domination and BDSM. But remember pro domes aren't escorts don't expect sex and definitely don't ask for it. In fact, don't expect any kind of sexual release at all. Maybe she'll let you wank for her if you've been good, maybe not but whether you orgasm or not is entirely up to her.
Google and FetLife are also great places to find a pro dominatrix.
Look out for events around the city too, ballbusting parties like the ones hosted and organised by Ms. Deadly Desire are a great place to meet pro domes in a safe environment doing what they do best. Check our event pages for current event listings.
Next let's look at finding a kinky girlfriend to bust you. This is of course much tougher because not only do you need to find a girl who is interested in ballbusting who is also willing to inflict pain on you, but you also need to find a girl who is single, looking for a relationship who you have a connection with and that really narrows your options.
If you're starting a relationship with some Dom/sub dynamics then take the time to get to know each other, don't rush straight in to the kink because there needs to be more to any relationship than sex. Get to know each other, make your relationship the priority and focus on the kink as a bonus.
Some dating sites are kinkier than others. OK Cupid and Plenty Of Fish seem to have many kinky female members but working out whether they are kinky or not can be tricky. She might give herself away in some of the things she writes in her profile, look for phrases like fiery personality, independent or strong.
Kinky girls often have an appetite to experiment with new and wild things, so look for girls who have a taste for adventure, perhaps she travels a lot, likes to try cuisine from around the world or maybe likes water sports.
Your final option is to find a friends with benefits type relationship, a regular playmate for some S&M fun, in this case your options are almost as limited as when looking for a busting girlfriend but as you're looking for a casual relationship you can dispose of some of the formalities and get straight to the point.
You can also try one of the many websites out there which offer a casual encounters section such as Craig's List but beware of time wasters.
Whether you are looking for some short term play or a longterm relationship, living in London puts you at an advantage as there are loads of fetish and femdom nights in London. Including Club Pedestal which takes place on he last Friday of every month and SWISH, a swingers and fetish night at The Hellfire Club, 10 miles from Central London in Sunbury-On-Thames.
We try to list as many events as we can on our events pages plus of course you can browser our members to find a kinky ball buster in your part of town.
