I'm a guy who loves ballbusting. I enjoy watching video of men being kicked in the nuts by women, I enjoy having my own testicles kicked and I like to chat to other kinky men and women who share my passion for testicle torment.
But, I've been wondering. How many women really like kicking guys in the balls? Sadly, for us guys who are seeking ball busters, the answer, generally, seems to be no. At least they are very rare.
Ballbusting is very much a male dominated fetish, submissive men love the feeling of vulnerability that a blow to the balls gives them, and you'd think that the woman doing the kicking would feel an equally as good feeling of dominance and power.
This is true. To bring a guy to his knees is a powerful feeling for a woman and for the few ballbusting girls I have met this is the biggest turn on for them. One girl I met told me how her sub just let her "go to town" on his balls, and she did and she loved it.
However, I've had some dominant girlfriends who would do just about anything to me but they always drew the line at ballbusting. This is probably because they are worried about how much it is going to hurt us men.
Girls grow up seeing how much a knee to the balls hurts in popular culture, a bit of pain is OK but for many ballbusting seems too extreme.
If you're in a relationship with a girl, it's pretty unlikely she's going to want to try ballbusting. To start with she may want kids one day and worry that ballbusting could cause serious, lasting damage. Some have said that cock and ball torture may lead to erectile dysfunction or infertility.
From what I've seen of the fetish, the testicles can take a surprising amount of punishment and medical complaints are few and far between.
Having said that, I have dated/been with a handful of girls who do love ball kicking and do it purely for the fun of it. A quick Craig's List search reveals some truths. Search for the term 'ballbusting' and you'll find that all of the ads are posted by guys 99% of the time, occasionally you might see a post from a woman offering ballbusting as a service.
Which leads me on to my final point, the subset of women who do willing indulge in ballbusting and that's any woman who is being paid for it. Pro dominatrix and escorts will often offer ballbusting as part of their services, sure they're fine kicking a client between the legs... but would they go home and do the same to their partner in the evening?
