Keeping Track Of My Encounters: From Fleeting One-Offs To Unforgettable Hookups

Monday, 9th January 2017

My Lesser Encounters



My sexual encounters over the past few years have been as varied as they've been thrilling. Many I have shared in the form of blog posts based on my journals from the time. The sessions I've written about are the most memorable, the ones where I'd been in scenarios that pushed my limits and offered exhilarating experiences that were both stimulating and enlightening.

However, there were others. Encounters that were fleeting, one-offs or not particularly noteworthy. Some of those include a meeting with a girl in Bermondsey. It was a low-key but memorable overnight stay, which involved me being smuggled out to avoid her housemates in the morning. That same morning, I met Mel, a young woman who had a knack for ballbusting blowjobs. I'd been ballbusted before, but combined with a blowjob the sensation was a mix of pain and pleasure that I'd not quite experienced before.

In 2014, I met Kat, an Asian panty seller who further fulled my fetish for used panties. Buying panties extended to international encounters, like meeting Donna, a panty seller from Brazil. Then I met sisters Lisa and Hayley in a Costa, buying their worn panties.

Craig's List opened up a different kind of interaction when a guy I met there and I share our mutual love of panties by wanking together with my collection. Then there was the lovely Dee, who became a good friend. Our first encounter was a day-long crash course in ballbusting. She was a first timer, but after the day with me she'd got the busting bug. I had another memorable meeting with Dee in Clapham, where our Starbucks date ended with her giving me her panties, and later that year she had me locked in a chastity device in the week leading up to Christmas.

Ballbusting was a common theme with my encounters, extended by an ebony masseuse who combined it seamlessly with a massage and post orgasm torture. I also met Misty, and our BDSM play was an amazing experience, whose style of domination was incredibly sensual and gentle, yet confident. Ella was cute and exciting, her repertoire including ballbusting, facesitting, and water sports. I met a very beautiful woman named Kaylee who gave me an intense ballbusting session, with culminated with her sitting on my face and making me drink her piss while she slapped my balls.

2015 was no less exciting. Two girls from Craig's List offered a double blowjob, which ended up including a little bit of small penis humiliation, not to mention the humiliation of cumming very quickly. Then I met Steph, who said possibly the hottest thing anyone has ever said to me on a first meeting: "I want to make you wear my panties and then I'll kick you in the balls." First-timer Irina dressed up as a nurse and a classic latex-clad dominatrix, has I showed her the ropes of domination.

The pace continued into 2016, featuring multiple encounters with Abbie in Bath where we engaged in mutual masturbation and ballbusting in a car. On one memorable meet I went down on her on the back seat, then I came as she crushed my balls with her bare foot. I also had the unique experience of performing ballbusting on a guy for the first time. Turning the tables was an exciting experience, especially since the guy was so well-hung. It was nice to get to play with a big cock and large hanging balls.

The list goes on, each encounter a chapter in my journey of sexual exploration and BDSM interests. Every person I met added something unique to the narrative, be it a new kink, a different method of domination, or a fresh perspective on my own desires. While some may consider these activities out of the ordinary, for me, each was a step on a path of self-discovery, challenging norms and pushing boundaries, both physical and psychological.


My Encounters In Numbers



I've had sex with 18 different women, three of them were in public or the back of a car.

Of those women, eight of them I haven't seen since the first and only time we had sex.

Over and above those I've had full sex with, I've performed oral sex on 19 other women and fingered yet another three.

On top of the women I’ve had sex with, I've received blowjobs from eight more women, two of which were at the same time and been given hand jobs by seven more women.

As well as those women, I’ve masturbated in front of another three women, as well as two who were together.

I've been filmed having sex twice.

I've been filmed/photographed nude with someone else another five times.

I've put my tongue in the assholes of nine women.

I've drunk piss from seven girls.

I've been kicked in the balls or received cock and ball torture from 22 women.

I've been penetrated anally by six women wearing a strap-on.

I've sniffed the dirty panties of 60 women.

I've sucked two penises, one of which was a trans and given one other guy a handjob.

I've met 39 people from Craig's List for a sexual encounter, of which 35 were female, three were male and one was a trans.