My first exploration of submission was with Amelia, a tall, slim black woman who lived in Kentish Town in North London. She was a little older than me and seemingly successful with a government-level international agency. Amelia replied to an ad I'd posted on Craig's List. I wasn't specifically looking for dominant woman but Amelia was searching for someone to submit to her and since I'd used the phrase "I'm a little submissive" in the ad, she'd found me.
I didn't know what to expect from my first encounter with a dominant woman. I knew I liked strong and powerful women, but I was new to exploring this kink and had no idea what I liked at this point. I had been talking to Mistress Amelia online after she replied to my ad on a hook-up site and now I was at the other side of London, nervously knocking on her door.
Mistress Amelia answered the door and my uncertainty quickly turned to excitement when I saw her. Amelia was wearing high heels, a long, flowing see-through black top, and most exciting of all some black latex panties. She struck me as being quite classy and as I got to know her that night, it was clear she was educated, well spoken and reasonably comfortable financially. She was dark skinned and had an incredible body, very slim, a great ass and a very pretty face.
Before long we were in the living room and she told me to strip. When someone is telling you what to do, it almost makes it less awkward. Being dominated isn't supposed to be comfortable, so being made to strip by a relative stranger is pretty normal in a situation like this. It was also exciting to know I'd be stood in front of her totally naked with her able to judge and critique my body while she remained fully clothed.
She began by ordering me to start kissing her feet, which I did without hesitation, even though this was my first time kissing a woman's feet, but again it felt quite natural to plant delicate kisses all over her feet through the open-strap high heels she was wearing.
She then told me to kiss my way up her body. It was a real treat to worship her smooth legs. The excitement grew as I got towards her tightly latex covered pussy, but as I was just inches away, she turned forcing me to kiss my way up the back of her legs and her ass. I kissed her ass all over and pushed my face between her cheeks. She said, "I think you're enjoying that a bit too much!" And enforced her first punishment on me, that of depriving me of her body by moving away from me.
Instead she ordered me to lie down on my stomach. I then felt her hand spank my left ass cheek, and then my right. It wasn't hard enough to hurt, but took me by surprise. She then gently rubbed my ass cheeks with the palm of her hand, before grabbing a hand full of my fleshy behind.
Then some more slaps, alternating between cheeks. At times they came hard and spaced out, but she also dished out slight slaps in quick succession.
After a while she grabbed my ass with both hands and said, "your ass is a lovely colour. Do you know you go red really quickly?" I said no, and explained I'd never been spanked before. She grabbed her phone before giving my left ass cheek a hard open-handed slap. She quickly took a photo with her phone and knelt down next to me to show me her snap. It clearly showed a big red handprint on my white ass. I asked her to send me the photo.
Amelia then instructed me to lean over the coffee table in the middle of her living room. I did as I was told and she grabbed a nine-tailed flogger and began whipping me. Which was a little more painful than her hand, but felt very exciting, perhaps due to the vulnerable pose she had placed me in.
Once satisfied that my ass was red enough, Amelia sat on the sofa and told me to stand in front of her. She inspected my cock and balls for the first time, which was of course already very hard. She didn't touch it in a sexual way, just handled it as if checking it over. She put a cock ring I had brought with me around my cock and balls. She grabbed my balls in one hand and said "you have a nice little package, has anyone ever told you that?" I said, "no, mistress."
For someone dominant and in control, Amelia was very caring and kind. Although pain was involved, I could tell she wanted me to enjoy this as much as her, even when she took things up a notch with what she was about to do with me next.
She had me kneel on all fours in front of her and told me to stroke my cock. I spat in my hand for lubrication and began to stoke my hard dick while behind me Amelia was putting on a latex glove on her right hand, which I didn't know she had and then very unexpectedly she started to finger my ass.
It felt very intense being probed this way. No one had been near my ass hole before, let alone in it and especially not a relative stranger. It was very humiliating, but very exciting at the same time. After a while Amelia reached around and stroked me hard until I came.
Amelia then said, "I think it's my turn now," which was music to my ears. She led back on the sofa and I kissed her through the latex, I could feel the heat from her pussy through the shiny underwear. She then said "you can move them aside." So I wasted no time and pushed the black material to the side of her smooth, shaved pussy. My tongue darted in to her sweet wet hole. She tasted delicious and before long I'd climbed on to the sofa and positioned myself in between her legs allowing me to worship her more easily.
I sucked on her clit and lapped up as much of her juices from every fold of her pussy that I could, with her hands on the back of my head, playing with my hair and occasionally pushing my face hard into her wet cunt.
After a while Amelia's breathing became shallow and fast as she began to come. I could feel her clit swelling on my tongue and her thighs tightened around my head. As she came with my tongue flicking over her clit, she pushed out with her legs causing her long heels of her shoes to dig into my leg, cutting me and making me bleed. An exciting battle wound.
Once she'd recovered, Amelia wanted to try my stainless steel ball crushers on me. She struggled to get it on to my balls to start with, but eventually managed to secure them in what was essentially a testicle-sized metal vice.
She twisted the metal handle to tighten the contraption around my balls. It wasn't tight enough to hurt to start with, but the sensation of pressure on my balls was new and exciting. She began to play with and sucked my cock while slowly tightening the crusher.
Because the device hung freely on my balls and had a bit of weight to it, Amelia found it amusing to occasionally lift the ball crusher before letting it drop and tug on my already aching balls.
After a while she took it off and let me lick her again as I knelt in front of her with her legs spread open across the sofa. Amelia then said something else I didn't expect. She asked, "would you like to fuck you mistress?" I hadn't expected to have penetrative sex with her, but of course I said, "yes, please."
Remaining the dominant one, Amelia led me down on the living room floor and slipped a condom on me before sitting on top of me and sliding my throbbing cock inside of here. Since she's already made me come once, Mistress Amelia was able to ride me until she was satisfied, but I hadn't cum again when Amelia climbed off me exhausted.
Amelia then asked if I'd like to stay the night, I agree. She said "I want to you keep me warm, you will be my hot water bottle." So I cuddled up close to her and we fell asleep pretty quickly, it was very sweet end to a fun evening of exploration.
