This is a guest article written by "RipeForLicking"
It's normal for us to have kinks however some can be more unusual than others. This may come as a problem if you're in a committed relationship and want to experience something you're partner may feel uncomfortable doing.
It's very common that in an attempt not to jeopardise a relationship, you may be missing out on mutual enjoyment and shared fantasies.
I have a few ways in which you can help your partner discover what makes you tick...
The appeal of dominance - Most woman have a desire to be dominant at some point. Think of the times where she's climbed on top or even just told you to tidy up. These are some ways that she likes to explore her dominance without necessarily emasculating you. In the past men were the hunters and women the gatherers and a lot of the time this is stereotyped. Many women won't realise that it's okay to be the dominant one because of an image popular culture portrays. Some ways you could help her take the wheel could be as simple as doing more household tasks. You can elaborate on her dominance by letting yourself be more vulnerable so that she begins to take control and this will build the foundations to sharing ballbusting together. I guarantee she'll feel more comfortable once she is used to having more control.
Now you have a few options. You could either start up with something more conventional like spanking and build up to ballbusting. This might be good if she is weary of hurting you. Baby steps would help her feel more comfortable and help her realise how much you both enjoy it. You could also discover it together, for instance while in bed together you could strategically manoeuvre your balls into her knee and then describe how it hurt but it was a massive turn on for you also. I know that as a woman I like nothing more than discovering things that make my man tick and this is what you'll be doing. The final option I have is being completely honest and telling her how much you enjoy being busted. Be prepared to explain the appeal of it and don't expect her to launch into it straight away. You could return the favour and ask if she is into any unconventional things. You might be surprised and find you share more common interests than you anticipated.
I cannot stress enough the importance of communication. It is imperative that you talk to one another and make sure that you both feel comfortable with the situation. Happy busting x
